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June 2010:
Courtship: Knights and Princesses by John Thrower Our theme this month is “Courtship: Knights and Princesses.” It is very fitting for June to be the courtship month. There are more weddings in June than any other month. As beautiful as a wedding is, there must first be the beauty of the developing relationship between the young man, the knight, and the young lady, the princess. The term “courtship” can mean many different things to many different people. I will offer a very simple definition: a relationship between a young man, a young woman and their parents purposefully involved with a view of the ministry of marriage as the desired end result. I will also state that this relationship maintains the highest standards of integrity and purity. Kissing and any form of intimacy are reserved for the wedding day. The intentional close involvement with the families is vital to the success of a courtship-style relationship. As parents we have guided our children through their academic studies, their godly character development, and their maturity, and now more than ever they need the guidance of their parents to help them find their life’s spouse. When the young knight comes to call with the request to get to know your princess, you will need to be prepared. There is no greater time for spiritual discernment. The future life and happiness of your child rests in many of your decisions in this relationship. I have been blessed to have both my daughters, Audra and Bethany, follow the standard of courtship; they are now happily married and serving the Lord. Audra is married to John Notgrass and Bethany is married to Matthew Coad. Both of these couples viewed courtship and marriage as a ministry and high calling in their lives. Both couples were involved with their parents and families throughout the courtship relationship. They spent many hours of counsel and one-on-one time before they made the decision to take the next step toward marriage. The result has been wonderful. Two separate lives are now one. There is an expectation of much spiritual fruit in the lives of the couples, and God will receive all the glory. I want to encourage you to consider the courtship pattern for your young people. The blessings are great and the fruit is sweet. Yours in Christ,
John Thrower President of The Family Vision |
